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Nude massage ethics
In addition to the general confusion of the sexes or as some say the battle of the sexes, there is a great deal of confusion about what a sexy massage is.
A sexy massage may simply be a regular massage where the therapist and client find mutual understanding. Here, one may experience some mutually interesting and intimate conversation and rapport. This may extend into flirting and making a date for later or very rarely, some physical intimacy.
Sexual massages however are typically advertised as sensual, erotic or tantric. The practitioners may or may not be trained or have any idea what they are doing which is a minefield for the client.
Some typical scenarios
One sees an advertisement for massage that contains no defining information, so one simply makes an appointment discussing the bare minimum of information and arrives for the treatment. Typically, the therapist outlines the services and the fees, although some will simply have you undress and commence the treatment very little talking.
In this situation, where the therapist is not very communicative, it's important that you ascertain what may take place before you undress and lay down.
Many therapists will offer massage at what seems to be an unusually low price and then as the massage begins you realise they have a few skills and probably little training, but their manner is a little flirtatious, which turns you on, and next thing you know they are asking more money for extras.
The sexy side of the massage industry is very seedy and unhealthy as massage has always been used as a cover for the sex industry which is filled with woman who can find no other work and although they despise themselves, continue to prostitute themselves.
Massage of courses so often arousing as the very process of relaxation also helps to restore aspects of one's libido. But what you do not want to do is touching the therapist without his or her permission.
But in general terms, the advice on the previous page is valid and must be followed.
In short, finding a sexy massage service is a bit like playing roulette and when you do find someone who does a good job and who you can actually communicate with them enjoy that relationship while it lasts.